What are your needs?
What I need is different than what I want. A need is a non-negotiable physical, personality or lifestyle trait that I must have in a partner/ partnership or relationship in order to be happy. A want is ultimately negotiable. Often times, I know what I need to make me happy, but I carelessly cast those needs aside because I believe and stuff of the red pencil syndrome, that I am asking for too much. Am I letting my fears push into my subconscious? I need what I need and accepting anything less is akin to accepting a substandard relationship. If it is an authentic need, then I know that I deserve it, and I use the forces available to me to manifest the better version of me and better version of life as I know it.
I think about the time that I invested, chasing a want.
I think about the missed opportunities.
Decide what I need and just key it.